Traveling With An Infant

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When you have a baby for the first time, the most basic tasks become monumental feats of courage and willpower. Things like grocery shopping, eating out at restaurants, and doctor’s visits can induce such crippling anxiety that you’ll convince yourself you actually don’t need to go out at all. You’ll pack your things together and decide you’d much rather stay inside with the baby. When your first plane ride is a 6 hour cross-country trip? Stress levels go through the roof.

We knew that it was going to be schlep to travel with a baby, so we adopted the strategy: expect the worst, and be pleasantly surprised when it’s only moderately catastrophic. I think it worked! As it turns out the things that we were most afraid of (being trapped with baby on six hour plane rides) ended up being much better than we thought. The things that we had a hard time with were things that we already knew she hated…being stuck in her car seat and napping/sleeping anywhere but her crib.

It definitely wasn’t easy. Being away from home for 9 days meant hauling quite a lot of stuff with, as you can see above. But we discovered, as with everything else you do with baby, it isn’t as bad as you think it will be. Here’s what we learned during our trip to California:

1. Bring a Baby Carrier– You may tell yourself before your trip, ‘well, my baby is almost a year now, and since they outgrew their baby bjorn, do I really need to buy another carrier that will fit them? I mean how much longer are they going to be in it anyway?’ (*cough**cough* husband) YES. For the love of everything buy a new carrier!! If you don’t feel like spending all that money for a new one, buy one from Craigslist, or borrow one from a friend if you can. I can not stress how important this one is. I asked my husband no less than two times a day on our trip, why oh why did we not buy a new carrier? Do it!

2. Stroller = Diaper Bag holder– We thought we were clever and got a really good umbrella stroller from Craigslist for $30. It is super light. It is easy to open and close with one hand. It is very easy to maneuver through crowded areas. Our daughter refused to sit in it. Because of this I pushed around our diaper bag in the stroller, while holding my child with one hand for the entirety of our trip. Please, please, please, see #1.

3. Bathroom = Hot Spot– The bathroom is where it’s at folks. Nap time for Esmé meant lights out, curtains closed. Consequently Mommy was left to read books on the ipad, in a pitch black hotel room, without making a peep, or, relax on a cold, hard bathroom floor, where you can at least make a little noise, and have lights on. My husband and I also enjoyed an excellent meal or two seated on the toilet and the edge of the bathtub, after we put her to bed. Good times.

4. Pack lightly– This is something that I knew about, but I still packed every cute outfit that she owns. I was also afraid that she wouldn’t have enough to entertain her on the plane, so I brought many toys, books, and teethers. She didn’t touch a single book, toy, or teether on the plane. Family and friends that we visited with were extremely generous, and gave us more clothes, books, and toys. Let’s just say packing for the return trip was a little tricky.

You’ll probably need only a couple extra outfits if your baby likes to spit-up/drool as much as mine, and maybe two toys for the plane, but that’s it. One thing that did seem to comfort Esmé was having a pacifier. She really isn’t a big fan of them, but I happened to have one in her bag, so I gave it to her when she got a little fussy and she loved it. If your baby has a comfort item, I would definitely have it on hand in a bag that you can get to easily.

5. Breast Feeding– If you’re breast feeding, take your cover with you wherever you go, even if you are braver than me, and don’t actually use a cover when you feed. I used ours as a blanket, a spit-up cloth, napkin, a cover so that she could sleep on the plane, and also to shade her from the sun. Seriously so helpful to have on hand. If you use bottles, take a light blanket and you can do the same thing.

6. Solid Food– Squeeze pouches of food, a silicone, or wipeable bib, and happy puffs are key if you have a baby who is eating solids. I generally make Esmé’s food at home, so I was amazed at how much more convenient those little squeeze pouches are. Initially they were kind of a distraction and she wouldn’t eat because she wanted to play with the pouch. So I just squeezed all the contents out into one of her bowls and fed her with a spoon. Happy puffs, or other snacky baby foods are not only helpful if your little one is hungry, but they also serve as entertainment for baby. This way mommy and daddy can quickly inhale their dinner while baby is crunching away.

7. Stroller = High Chair– I know I already said that the stroller serves to push the diaper bag around for #2, but the one time my child didn’t mind being in the stroller was when she was facing me. So I strapped her in and used it as a high chair. Huge help! Not every place you go to has high chairs, and we certainly didn’t have one in our hotel room, so breakfast was served, every morning, in her stroller.

8. Activities–  Tune in to what your baby likes to do. I don’t know about you, but before we go on a trip somewhere, I like to yelp everything that is nearby, and make a list of all the places I want to see. Generally there are a lot of dessert places on that list, but that’s neither here nor there. I spent a couple days dragging her around, pushing the diaper bag around in the stroller, trying to shop with one hand, until I finally gave up.

She loved the playground that was at this shopping center 5 minutes away from our hotel. She just enjoyed being outside, watching all the kids around her, eating the playground equipment, and being with me…so why stress her and me out trying to get her to ‘enjoy’ other things? As soon as I let go of my list, and started doing things we both could enjoy, things went a lot more smoothly, and she was a much happier camper. At least until I took her away from the playground.

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Recipe Review: Jewels’ Favorite Soup

I am nursing a head cold at the moment, so I thought a recipe review of one of our favorite soups would be very appropriate. This recipe is one that I found years ago, and I make it all the time. It is one of the easiest soups to make, and it really does not disappoint. Better yet, it’s a recipe that uses ingredients that I pretty much always have on hand, which makes it so easy to throw together at the last minute. It’s vegetarian, gluten free, if you don’t eat it with bread, dairy free, if you skip the Parmesan cheese on top, and if you make it with vegetable stock it’s vegan!

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It starts with prepping your veggies. Chop up one medium onion, two stalks of celery, and four ripe tomatoes. The bigger you chop the veggies, the chunkier your soup will be. Then slice your cloves of garlic. The recipe calls for two, but I generally put in one more, or two if they are smaller, because I love garlic.

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Heat the olive oil in a large pot over medium-high heat and saute your celery and onion for 5-6 minutes, until they are soft.

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Add the tomatoes, salt, and garlic, and saute for 3 more minutes, (the original recipe actually has you add the garlic with the broth and beans in the next step, but I like the flavor of the garlic to really mix in with the veggies). Then add your broth and beans, and bring the soup to a boil. Reduce the heat to low and simmer for 20 minutes, adding in the parsley during the last 5 minutes. While the soup is simmering, I chop up my parsley, so it’s ready to throw in at the 15 minute mark.

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Not the best picture, I know, but this soup is very good. It is phenomenal the second and the third day because the flavors have really gotten a chance to blend together. We like to eat it with a buttered slice of crusty bread. You can also have it topped with a little Parmesan, or just on its own.

Here’s the link for the recipe: Jewels’ Favorite Soup Jill Makes. If you are only feeding yourself, or just like to do freezer meals ahead of time, the leftovers freeze beautifully.

If you have a favorite soup recipe please share in the comments, or email me! I am always looking for new ones to try, particularly any that make for a hasty cold recovery 🙂

Milestones and Memories: 9 Months

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In three months time I will no longer be mama to a baby. Wait, we are sort of mid-Feb already, so this craziness is happening in only two and a half months. My baby girl is nine months old! Can someone explain how this happened please? Also of note, my child will never be ten months old. Next year she will be a year and ten months in February, but then she’ll have to wait four more years for it to happen again.

I always go in to her checkups expecting her growth to be off the charts because I feel like she’s huge and weighs a ton. I am then always in shock when the pediatrician tells me otherwise. She is 75% for height and weight, and her head is 80%. My arms and back say she is 150%

She is growing so quickly now. I feel like all of a sudden someone pushed the fast-forward button with learning and development. It’s almost daily that I turn around and she’s doing something new. To all my mamas with younger babies, look out. Change is coming! Here’s what we’ve been doing lately:

-She started climbing the stairs. She’s been climbing all over mommy, daddy and kitty for awhile. She also pulled herself up on the bottom stair, but she hasn’t been strong enough to do much other than that. I left her to bang on the stair to do something in the kitchen, and when I came back she was standing on the first stair.

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-We have also mastered the skill of pulling ourselves up to standing. This literally happened yesterday. I went in to get her in the morning and she was chattering away and smiling to be standing in her crib

-Because of the afore mentioned new skill, we had to lower the crib is as low as it will go. This causes problems for mommy because she can not get all the way down to kiss baby anymore. Esmé doesn’t seem to mind.

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-We do not know how best to fall, see above. Her reaction is to put her right hand behind her head as though reclining in a chair, and the left hand flails out. So while we are very excited to be standing, we don’t know how to sit down if we get tired. So we fuss and cry and whine until someone comes and rescues us.

-She has obviously been sitting on her own for awhile, but within the past month she actually learned to get herself in a sitting position on her own.

-The army crawl (or as my husband calls it leopard crawl) is a thing of the past. We started crawling on hands and knees just before we left to California, but she really mastered it while we were there, as you can see here.

-I fear walking is not far away. She walks very well, and very fast if you give her two fingers to hang on to. She has also started cruising around between furniture and mom.

-She has five teeth now: three top and two bottom. I think this is why everything from shoes to the cat’s tail (sorry Ruby) is a chew toy.

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-She is on her way to eating what we eat. She will eat small pieces of our food if they are squishy enough, and while we were on vacation, we discovered carbs! MMMmmmmmmm! Sourdough bread is mama’s favorite, and it looks like it might be hers too ;).

IMG_2150-This picture just kills me. This is the little angel face I get to see every time I feed her. She might be a little behind in this one, but she is holding her own bottle now.

-She can clap her hands now! It’s one of her favorite party tricks. Just in time too, because we just started music classes! We had our first one today and she LOVED it. There were only two other little boys, maybe 4 years old, and Esmé was fascinated by them. Daddy scolded her when she came home and said ‘no looking at boys.’ She shrieked and pterodactyl-ed at them as loud as she could, and, sweet little ones that they were, shrieked back at her since she couldn’t talk like them. We played with jingle bells, maracas, and a very big, loud drum. We sang and danced, and then we played with bubbles. The bubbles are her favorite so far. Besides the boys 😉

-Last and best of all, she says mama all. day. long. It’s the best thing ever. She says dadda and papa too, but mama is her favorite jibber jabber sound at the moment.

Esmé goes to California

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Last week we kind of went on vacation to southern California. I say ‘kind of’ because my husband was working the whole time, and I had to look after the baby, so basically we were both working…just, elsewhere. Esmé had herself a nice vacay though, and I figured, since she was the one who got to have all the fun, she could tell you all about it herself.

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Esmé how was it going on an airplane for the very first time? That giant loud thing with all the people in it? That was a blast! I got to crawl all over my mommy and daddy, and there was all this neat new stuff to chew on: armrests, buttons, tv screens, the backs of other people’s chairs…it was basically the best thing ever.

We heard that on the trip out there you were seated next to the bathrooms, what did you think about that? Well I was taking a nap, and someone flushed the toilet. It was so loud it woke me up! It took me awhile to figure out where I was at first, but when I realized where I was, I was ready to party again. Let’s be honest, all those people weren’t waiting in line to use the bathroom anyway. They just wanted to come talk to me!

How did you like the hotel? Were you able to sleep ok even though you weren’t in your own bed? I don’t know why my parents make me sleep in that pack’n’play thing, but it is the WORST. I basically try to make my parents suffer for putting me in there by crying as loud as I can, for as long as I can, until I fall asleep. Also, there’s something wrong with the hotel’s bathtub… they don’t have any mirrors or toys. That kind of freaked me out the first few nights, but then people brought me presents! After that I had toys to play with in the tub, so it was much better. I did enjoy crawling all over the hotel bed and making out with myself in their mirror.

Speaking of people bringing you presents, were you excited to meet your family and friends? Those people were the best. Any time I said ‘ha,’ they would clap their hands, sing songs, and get all excited! They were so easily entertained, it was awesome. A couple of times they tried to get me to sit down and eat dinner with them, which was not cool. Sitting is just way too boring. So I whined and cried loudly to let them know I wasn’t having any of it. A lot of them also tried to hold me. I was like, you’re not my mom so, no. 

I see. Well we also heard that you sampled many different foods that you hadn’t had yet. What was your favorite? Grass.

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Really? Not the bread? Grass.

Scrambled eggs? Cookies? I liked the grass. And the sand. The sand was good too.

How interesting. Now, we have a couple of photos here…the first is when you were at Myrtle Beach, the second is from your recent trip to Laguna Beach. Tell us, how does it feel to have had your feet in both coasts before the age of one? Terrible.

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You’re not excited about it? Well the first time, I was a little unsure what was going on.

Yes I was going to remark that you look like you have some mixed emotions in the first photo. There was all this wet stuff, and squishy stuff and I just didn’t know how I felt about it. But when my mom and dad took me to the beach this last time, I knew exactly what was going on. And I did not like it.

It wasn’t exhilarating? No. It was cold. It was loud. My parents held me there just so they could have a picture of me crying in the ocean. It was terrible, just terrible.

I see this is a sensitive subject for you, let’s move on and talk about activities. What did you do with all your time? Certain people had concerns that there wouldn’t be enough to entertain you during your stay. The question should be what didn’t I do? I went to the playground, I talked and waved to everyone in the stores, I made artwork on the floor with my food, I went to the playground, I chased seagulls, I chased doggies, I went to the playground… did I say that last one already? Because I really, really liked the playground. There were all these other little people! But they were moving so fast! And on only two legs!! It was fascinating, really.

Now that you have a cross-country trip under your belt, will we find you traveling elsewhere soon? Currently I have no set plans, but perhaps later on in the year. We’ll just have to see what happens!

Well thank you so much for taking the time to tell us about your latest excursion. It certainly seems like you had a wonderful time. It was the best.

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 *Top, third, and last photo credit: Alma Alvarado*